Happiness is optional. Every romance or love story you read or watch always has small snippets of happiness. In the end, there is always a happily every after because both characters decide they want their happiness to be something permanent, something everlasting, and something that last forever.
However, their happiness was a conscious decision they made to explore themselves, open their heart up, and accept love. They decided they wanted their happiness to be an everyday thing.
Each of us must make a conscious decision and effort to explore ourselves, find out who we are, love ourselves, love what we do, and allow ourselves to be happy.
You can’t be happy with someone else without being happy with yourself, and once you’re happy with yourself and what you do their will be no question about it . There will be an internal light located in the center of your heart that warms you up and makes you want to cry happy tears. You can feel happiness it’s not just an emotion. It’s a feeling. A happy person is someone who is happy within themselves. They may not be happy with the results of the world or how to world works but they are happy with themselves.
A wise woman once told me, “when you know yourself, you can be yourself.” This is the motto that happy people unknowingly live off of. They go on an adventure to find themselves and explore who they are. Then they established who they want to become after finding out who they are. Then they live on by doing what brings them joy.
You can only be happy when you decide that you want to be happy. Then, you can be happy forever by understanding that happy is something you love feeling. First, you have to make the decision to change and be happy. Nothing has to happen for you to be happy. Life doesn’t have to me a smooth ride for you to be happy. You HAVE to find it within yourself.
The truth is, happiness is only temporary until you become jubilant.